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Sunday 6 October 2024

Dramatic Sunday

 

Can't think of an appropriate image to illustrate the story below, so I'm just choosing a recent photo of a kind of dramatic evening sky. 

Above me since many years lives a rather large Muslim family. Somehow, ever since they first moved in, they have always seemed to me to have around the same number of children, ranging from babies or toddlers to upper teens. (I can only suppose that every now and then the oldest must have kept moving out while new babies were added...) Anyway, for a large family they have always made surprisingly little noise. And if once in a blue moon they had a party to celebrate something - like for example yet another high school graduation - they have usually even warned neighbours about it beforehand (even if it only turned out to mean having a few extra people over for a few hours in the afternoon). 

Lately, something has changed. Every now and then there have been unusual outbursts of shouting and quarrelling and stomping of feet. Sometimes sounding quite worrying; but I've interpreted it as probably some kind of teenage rebellion phase going on. After all, not too surprising if one in the long row of usually well-behaved teens finally happens to disagree with some family rules... 

The last few days there seems to have been an increased frequency of noise like that though. And today I woke up to to more of the same.

After a while, some family members went outside. Looking out of my window, it seemed to me that most of the noise came from just one young man though. Actually he seemed totally out of control, even running out barefoot (and it's no longer that kind of weather at all). Then he disappeared from my view (must have gone back in) but a woman remained outside making a phone call. I opened my window a tiny bit but could only make out that she seemed to be speaking Swedish rather than some other language. After a while, a car arrived - a "private" car, but out of it stepped two police officers in full uniform, one man and one woman. They talked for a while to the woman with the phone and one of the others; and then they all went in and back up to the flat. The police were there for a good while. It seems they must have managed to deal with the situation for now by talking, as in the end they left without taking the young man with them; and it has remained quiet the rest of the day.

From what I saw today, I think I have to re-evaluate my earlier impressions of the situation. While at first I thought it may be about a teen behaving "too Swedish", I'm now thinking more along the lines of either religious radicalism or psychosis. (In the first case, the family is not likely to have contacted Swedish authorities themselves, which they obviously did.)

Still feeling a little bit "jumpy" myself from the morning chaos; but I did venture out for a walk after lunch. (Then all was very quiet, and it still is.)


13 comments:

  1. That dramatic sky is pricess!

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  2. I do hope that all is well with your neighbours. It must be worrying.

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    1. JC, I've heard nothing more since yesterday a.m. but yes, I'll probably continue to worry about any unusual sound for a while...

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  3. This is really worrying. My first thought is that the teenager is on drugs. Be careful.

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    1. Ginny, I'm thinking that the police would know the signs if drug abuse was involved. I'll no doubt be a bit extra on my guard for a while anyway, though.

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  4. That beautiful stormy sky photo seems to reflect the situation, Monica. It's unsettling when we are witness to situations like that. I hope it settles down but the pragmatist in me thinks it won't until the problem is identified and dealt with.

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    1. No doubt you're right, Pauline. I can only hope the family got some relevant advice from the visiting police.

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  5. I am sorry for the family for having to deal with whatever the crisis actually is. Hopefully, the situation will be under control and there won't be any danger to them, or to others in the house.

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    1. Meike, one can always hope... although I suspect that whatever the cause, the situation is not very likely to have been permanently solved by just one visit from the police...

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  6. A beautiful evening sky.
    How sad that the family are having problems, after so many years of peaceful co-existence. Unfortunately it seems that families sometimes have to deal with a "problem" member - usually during teenage years. I do hope that for you all, the matter has been resolved and peace has been restored.

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    1. Carol, no repetition yesterday or yet today, anyway.

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  7. Glad there has been no repeat. it is concerning for others that don't live with the family, as that can bleed over into your lives. I hope it was a one time thing and it doesn't happen again..

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    1. Thanks Sandra. I'm hoping they will find the kind of help they need to sort it out, whatever it is about.

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