17 years ago, in April 2008, I had been actively looking for a new flat (apartment) for about a year. My decision to move had been made even earlier, though - following early retirement in 2004 because of chronic neck/arm pain (including difficulties to carry things up/down stairs); and then, on top of that, in the summer of 2006, major surgery of other kind making things even more difficult for a while.
I knew what I wanted: A flat of about the same size as the one I had, but preferably with three rooms instead of two; in a building with a lift (elevator) (which we did not have where I lived); closer to the city centre, but not too noisy; and not situated on the top a steep hill... (I felt I had had enough of that, too, after 22 years.)
When I started looking for such a place, it proved easier said than done to find it, though.
But finally, at the end of April, 2008, one such flat, owned by the municipal housing company, was announced available on short notice (2 months rather than the usual 3). I went to have a look at the building from outside. The location seemed ok - away from the main road and traffic noise. The building was only three storeys high, but had a lift - and also a sturdy, "straight" staircase with handrails on both sides, instead of a narrow spiral one (as at my old place). Not on top of a steep hill, and closer to the city centre than my previous flat.
I returned home and registered my interest immediately; and the very next day I was able to go back and have a look inside. The previous tenants were a young family with two small children, who were going to move to a bigger flat; and the mum was home and showed me around. I asked if I could also take a few photos, and was allowed to do so.
The first thing that caught my eye when I entered the kitchen was the view from the window there. Below is the photo I took of the kitchen on that visit - 28 April, 2008. I loved the fact that there were trees outside, and the next building not too close.
Looking out the same window yesterday and taking a mental walk down "Memory Lane", I then managed to also locate the kitchen window photo I took that day on an old photo CD:
28th April, 2008 |
The flat was available from 1 July, i.e. just two months away. Standard notice period here is 3 months, but I had counted on needing one month's "margin" for the move anyway (i.e. I was prepared to pay double rent for one month, rather than have to rely on others moving out and myself moving in on the same day).
I liked the layout of the flat, too; and as soon as I got back home, I contacted the housing company's office. They said that as no one else had registred interest (probably because of the short notice), it was mine if I wanted it. I signed the contract at their office on 29th April, and also managed to give 3 months notice to my old landlord about moving, at the very last moment. (30th April is Walpurgis Night in Sweden, with offices usually closing early, if open at all.)
The next couple of months I remember as a frenzy of planning and fixing and packing. There were also some things that needed fixing in the new flat after the old tenants moved out, but before I moved in: like new wallpaper in most of the rooms. But I managed to negotiate with the landlord's office to get that done during the first three weeks in July; and on the 24th of that month, I moved in.
The day after the Big Move - 25th July, 2008 |
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28th April, 2025 |
17 years later, I still love the view from my kitchen window. The trees outside have kept growing taller and taller; and in summer, greenery is pretty much all I see from my favourite spot at the kitchen table now. (And even in winter it's quite a nice view from there.)
It's good you are still loving where you live. The photo of how the kitchen was when you went to look at it is quite plain, I like what you've done to it since you've been there.
ReplyDeleteThanks Amy. The kitchen in itself is quite plain. I rather prefer that though (like neutral wallpaper etc) as one is then free to change the "mood" of the room and put one's own stamp on it by just changing some fabrics and decorations.
DeleteAfter a long search following health challenges, your 2008 move into a well-located, accessible flat with a lovely view sounds like a well-deserved fresh start, made smoother by good timing, planning, and the help of supportive friends.
ReplyDeleteYou sum it up, Ro! :)
DeleteI was very interested in reading this. And I do not remember these beautiful clover curtains. I am sure you must have posted them before. I also can't remember about your injury...was it a car accident? And what was your diagnosis? Do you get monthly checks for not being able to work? We have that here, disability it is called.
ReplyDeleteGinny, the curtains are new for this spring. I put them up for 1st March and posted photos then. And you commented - but no doubt you have had more important things to remember since then! :)
DeleteI love your view of trees, like living in a tree house almost. It gives a sense of peace to look out at nature, doesn't it? Your move sounds smooth, overall. I have been in my house 40 years, also a long time.
ReplyDeleteTerra, I agree - looking out at trees does give a sense of peace. As for the move, it was all rather stressful at the time - but it also felt "right", and still does.
DeleteThat was a lovely post, Monica!
ReplyDeleteLike you, I love the view from my kitchen window, and it certainly was a determining factor in buying this flat. I very well remember our first viewing, when Steve and I wanted out of our rented flat and have our own; we were sick and tired of dealing with landlords and paying high rents when we could pay the same amount into a mortgage plan and at the time of our retirement, be finished with it and not pay a monthly amount of money for the flat anymore.
We looked at newspaper ads (that was the standard in 2003!) in February/March of that year, and the first advert we found interesting and rang to arrange a viewing was actually for this very flat I am in now.
We felt good about the place from the first moment we set foot in it, and Steve was quite ready to seal the deal there and then. But I insisted we look at other places before settling for one - my argument was that we shouldn't just take the first one but see if there was anything that suited us better.
It turned out that there wasn't anything better suited to our needs (and budget!), and so after two weeks or so, I rang the family again, hoping they hadn't given the flat to someone else. They said that we had been the only seriously interested viewers - I suspect that other German viewers were not keen on moving into the middle flat of a house where the bottom and top flat plus the semi next door was all occupied with Turkish families. We didn't mind that one bit, and the contract was signed towards the end of March. Moving Day was in October of that year, which makes me living here now for almost 22 years - and I have felt at home from Day One and never looked back!
Thanks for sharing your story, Meike. When I moved in here, I remember that out of six surnames in my entrance, four were Swedish and two foreign. The ratio has changed over the years (with people moving in and out), and now it seems I'm the only Swede. I usually don't see much of my neighbours and apart from one family, at present I have no idea who is who... (What surprises me the most is that often people even manage to move out and in without me noticing, even though I'm nearly always at home!)
DeleteThis is such a lovely, heartfelt post. The wonderful thing about trees is their constancy.
ReplyDeleteHappy Walpurgis Night!
Thanks Janice. Yes, trees can become like "old friends"... :)
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